The Ex Factor Guide Review – 3 PROS and CONS of the Program

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IF YOU HAVE SEEN THE VIDEO on ExFactorGuide.com, you are right to be a little skeptical.

It is a tall order to write a book that will bring your boyfriend back and make all the claims that Brad Browning (the author) does.

After getting access to the program, I have gone through it a few times and picked it apart so you can see if it’s worth your time or not.

This review is my take on the program after going through the material.

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Here is a screenshot of the Ex Factor Guide on my desktop

What is The Ex Factor Guide (EFG) in one sentence:

The Ex Factor Guide is a simple to follow guide to help get your ex back.

EFG in more detail:

Being involved in a recent break up is emotionally draining. The rollercoaster of emotions as well as the getting used to a new normal is overwhelming

It can feel hopeless and be a lonely place to be. And all these emotions can make you do things that you don’t usually do

Especially if your breakup was a surprise and you didn’t want to break up in the first place

But if he broke it off with you, it isn’t necessarily the end of the relationship

If you still love him. You still want him. You think about him often. Then if there is any chance of getting back together then you’d need to get it together

To help, what if you could have a steady, calm and experienced voice in your ear, giving you guidance in repairing things between you and your boyfriend?

Enter Brad Browning and his Ex Factor Guide

 

The Ex Factor Guide Product Boxes
Although the product is shown in boxes, it is only available as a digital download

 

Brads 156-page guide (along with bonuses) aims to give you a structured plan to follow for rekindling and reigniting the flame of your relationship

The guide has 14 chapters that detail his plan for you to get back together with your boyfriend

Chapters

  • Prologue: The Big Picture
  • Chapter 1: Introduction
  • Chapter 2: Attractive Characteristics
  • Chapter 3: Unattractive Characteristics
  • Chapter 4: Panic and Acceptance
  • Chapter 5: Start With “No Contact”
  • Chapter 6: Start Dating Other Men
  • Chapter 7: What If He Contacts
  • Chapter 8: What If He Doesn’t Contact
  • Chapter 9: The “Date”
  • Chapter 10: Seduce Him All Over Again
  • Chapter 11: Sex!
  • Chapter 12: Preventing
  • Chapter 13: Desperation
  • Chapter 14: Conclusion

In the chapters, Brad goes through the different steps of the process. When to start communicating, what to say, where to meet, how far to take it etc.

EFG has advice for those complicated situations such as:

  • He’s sending you mixed messages that you can’t read
  • You think you might have pushed him away but are not sure how
  • He’s been distant for a while and doesn’t seem like himself
  • You get the feeling he is seeing someone else
  • He seems unsure if he wants you in his future or not
  • And others listed on his website

What’s exactly in it:

Brad Browning's comprehensive guide does have:

  • Text – yes
  • Audio – yes
  • Video – no
  • Bonuses – (Text versions of)
    • Why men pull away
    • Flawless fat loss fitness guide
    • How to read a man

Other things you should know

  • The program is a digital download meaning that there are no physical versions available. The good news here is that you will be able to download the program within 5 minutes of purchasing it.
  • Brad offers ‘email coaching’ where he will answer questions, for a fee.
  • After the purchase page, you will receive an email with your login details and a link to the membership area. Once there you can download the text files and audio files (audio files via .zip) to your PC or device.

PROS and CONS

PROS

Practical guide

There is some theory in here explaining this or that, but generally, this is a guide to get things done. Actions, strategies and sometimes even exactly what to say word-for-word

Simple to follow

There aren’t any huge surprises here and no guessing as what to do next etc. The program is in order, and any terminology used by Brad is explained. There is also an option for email coaching so if you do have problems, you have the choice to email Brad himself.

Simple to understand

The book is written in conversational English which made it easy to read. I also liked the fact that I could listen to the program in my car or while out and about. The quality of the audio recording is very good

CONS

A bit manipulative

The EFG has its moments where it is a bit manipulative and you may have moral issues with implementing all of his tactics and strategies. There’s a part in there where he talks about making a fake Facebook profile to get your ex to be jealous enough to get back with you… Needless to say that I don’t think this is a good idea under any circumstances

Over-explained

Don’t get me wrong there is good information in this program, however, it can seem that at times the author is explaining things that don’t need explaining

“Look feminine and pretty. Just look ‘chill’ and take a few deep breaths. Don’t just constantly stare at him  . . ..” – Page 112

I can understand that people might want clarification, but too much can also make people stilted and not-themselves

No references

Studies are referred to here but I could not find a reference

Ex Factor Guide Video Teaser

Bonuses

Why Men Pull Away

Overview:

Is your boyfriend pulling away for no apparent reason? This 30-page guide highlights the 7 reasons why men start becoming distant, and possibly why your relationship broke down. There is also some broad insights into fixing these 7 issues

My opinion:

Some highlights in this bonus. The reasons why men pull away can highlight areas in your relationship where it went wrong if you were unsure. I can picture some people reading this and nodding. However, the advice on how to fix the issues is quite broad. I.e. ‘build more trust and open lines of communication’. ‘Don’t be controlling or jealous’… You probably have heard a lot of this advice before

I think there are some holes in this bonus guide as well. Meaning there are some reasons why your relationship didn’t work that aren’t in here

Flawless Fat Loss Fitness Guide

Overview:

This is a comprehensive 249-page guide to losing weight. It’s a wake-up call and a defined and detailed plan of action which will help anyone who is unsure about the topics of weight loss and health more generally. There are comprehensive sections on both diet and exercise

My opinion:

This is A LOT of detail. Those who like numbers, stats and things to remember are going to enjoy it. For the rest of us, the author does give quite a few rules of thumb, and there are quite a few things to follow and targets to hit in this plan. It also isn’t ‘done for you’ you will need to research and figure the finer details out for yourself. The author is also a little ‘over-confident’ at times which was off-putting. Overall it is a bit hard to follow and is more suited for people who want to start bodybuilding, rather than simply lose a little bit of weight

How to Read a Man

Overall:

This 24-page bonus guide is all about what is happening between his ears. It contains 15 deciphered-for-you scenarios to help you really understand what he is thinking and feeling when he does particular things. All 15 scenarios relate to getting your ex back

My opinion:

There is some good information here, although it mostly reads as common sense. This guide will help give you a second opinion on your relationship with your ex and can help make it a bit clearer on your particular situation. Short and to the point it’s a handy guide to have. Not to sit and read through but more to refer to when required

Summary

There are a few highlights in this program, but generally, it is a simple guide. There isn’t so much new information here as much as laying out a plan and simplifying a game plan, with the help of some common sense

On a more positive side, is that this is a practical guide. You can listen to this once and get a good idea exactly what the plan is. Am I confident in the plan though? It seems solid in some areas and a bit haphazard in others, as well as loosely referring to ‘studies’ that aren’t referenced

Some of the techniques are quite good and as I said, there are a few highlights. But generally, this isn’t as informed as other info products

Overall, I give the Ex Factor Guide  3 out of 5 stars

If you only plan on purchasing one program to help you get your ex back then id try a different one. If however, you want your best shot at getting your ex back, and you want every piece of information on the topic then there are some nuggets you want in this program

The good news is that you can get the program, have a look at it yourself and decide if it’s what you want, or get yourself a refund.

You can get the program here

5 Questions To Ask Your Future Husband…

Questions to Ask a Guy Before Deciding Hes the One - Woman on a Date with Man

Questions To Ask Your Future Husband - Woman on a Date with Man

WOULDN'T IT BE GREAT IF the men you dated came with stickers?

Stickers that say, ‘I am not trustworthy’, ‘I am never getting married’, ‘I will end up cheating on you!’, or something like ‘I am a man of integrity, and I will be a great husband and dad’.

Well, the stickers may not exist in the real sense of the word; but the messages do. Lauren Frances indicates that men give clues that can help you know their personality, interpret their agenda and spot any red flags. Better still, you can obtain all the information that you need from your potential partner simply by asking him questions.

Men have their own relationship goals, and they would be happy to share them with a woman. Many women do not know where a relationship is going because they never ask, and only muster the courage to ask three or four years later.

In ‘Act like a Lady, Think like a Man’, Steve Harvey interviews a lot of men who were self-proclaimed ‘players’. All the ‘players’ indicated that if the women had quizzed them upfront about their intentions, they would have told them right away that they were not looking for anything serious. The guys indicated that the women they dated didn’t ask the essential questions for fear of running the guys off, so they (the guys) just strung the women along.

Why you should ask questions

Just because you love each other does not mean you will automatically create a great life together. Many times, great relationships end despite people loving each other deeply; one is too ambitious while the other is not ambitious enough, one wants children, but the other one does not, one is self-driven while the other one is a slob. So you see, you better ask the questions early enough before you invest so much time, effort and emotions.

Lose the fear

The first step is to get over the fear of losing a man by asking him important questions. In every area of life, taking chances to get what you want is much more productive than sitting around being too scared. Just stop being afraid already. If being clear about your requirements means you risk him walking away, then it is a risk you are going to have to take. In any case, you will only scare the wrong guys off.

What to do

To get the most out of your relationships, you must change your strategy. Start by ensuring that the man is really clear from the word go about what he wants out of his life and his relationship with you.

Q1: What are your plans for the future?

This is truly an important question; you need to know whether you and him share goals and dreams. From his answer, you will able to determine whether:

  • You fit in his plan
  • What role you can play in the plan.
  • You need to remove yourself from the equation.

The man you want to involve yourself with is the one who has a solid plan; one that you can see yourself in. If he has no vision, you do not want to be part of that confusion and mayhem. He is not going anywhere and sooner or later, you will be stuck too.

Q2: How do you feel about me?

This is a question that you will ask after a few dates. If he cannot tell how he feels about you after a month of dating, then he does not feel anything for you; he just wants something. At this point, you are not looking for him to confess his undying love for you; it is too soon anyway.

However, you can expect answers like: I love talking to you, I always wonder what you are doing, and I feel a little better whenever you come around. In other words, his answer should make you feel fantastic. He may not be in love with you just yet, but he will let you know that he is crazy about you and he wants to pursue a long-term relationship with you.

If you realize that his feelings for you are barely scratch the surface, and he is nowhere near where you want him to be, step on the brakes until you hear the things that you need to hear from him.

Q3: Do you believe in marriage?

This sounds like a scary question to ask, but look at this way; you are not telling him that you want to get married to him now, you are only asking him what he believes.

This question will help you to establish whether the guy wants to get married in the first place. That he is in a relationship with you does not necessarily mean that he wants to get married. Also, the fact that he has been dating you for a while is no guarantee that he wants to marry YOU.

Q4: How do you feel about having children?

Over the last few decades, things have changed, and more people feel less need to have children. If you want children, it is best to find out if your man wants children as well before you commit to him. Do not make any assumptions.

If you realize that both of you want children, great! Find out more about what he thinks of children:

  • How many children does he want?
  • How does he feel about having all boys? Or all girls?
  • What would he do if you discovered that as a couple you could not have children?
  • Is he open to alternative ways of having children; like adoption?

Q5: What are your thoughts about religion?

Religion is a big issue, and it is ironic that many couples do not discuss it before committing. If religion is especially important to you, it is prudent to ask all the relevant questions.

  • Does he practice any religion?
  • If the two of you practice different religions, who will be willing to switch to the other’s?
  • What religion will your children practice?

Quick tip: Ask your guy about his relationship with God. If you realize that the man has no relationship with God, has no belief system or guiding force in his life, this might be a huge problem.

  • What moral barometer does he answer to?
  • What makes him feel whole?
  • What is going to make him do right by you?

By all means, you can date a guy who does not go to church or have a relationship with God, but if his core beliefs do not match with yours, you are likely to have challenges in your relationship.

Final thoughts

  • Men love to talk about themselves; they do this because they know that to get you, they have to impress you. Allow him to impress. The more inquisitive and interested you are, the more the information he will give you.
  • Believe what you hear. Do not stick around hoping that the guy will change his mind about something down the road. For instance, if he does not want kids, he will probably not change his mind, regardless of how deeply he feels about you.
  • Do not be afraid of the answers you might get. See the answers as a way to plan your future. Be proud that you are proactively creating a future that you will love.
  • Do your best to be equally honest about your expectations from the start. Be absolutely clear that your man understands that you are looking for long-term relationship, marriage, children…. whatever it is, define it for him so that you are on the same page.

Lastly:

The reason why you are asking all these questions is because you like a guy and you want to find out if the two of you have a future together. You do not intend to make him feel uncomfortable.

So, do not ask all the questions in one sitting and do not ask them in a formal way. You are not interrogating the guy. Be tactful; make the conversation as casual and as fun as you can.

Thanks for reading this guide on Questions To Ask Your Future Husband, if you have any comments or questions you can contact me here.