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HOW MUCH DO YOU REALLY KNOW ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS AND MEN?
If a guy you had been seeing for a while didn’t call you for a couple of weeks would you know what to do?
Do you know exactly what a man needs in a relationship and how to give it to him?
Do you know how to turn your man on in a public place and have him thinking about you all day?
If your even a little unsure about any of these questions then they are answered in ‘The Devotion System’
But are they answered well enough for you to change your relationships for the better? And who is Amy North anyhow…?
After getting a copy and going through the program I have written this review. It covers the good and the not so good. And it starts below
What is The Devotion System (TDS) in one sentence?
The devotion system is a woman's guide to relationships with men.
What’s in TDS
What’s in it:
- Text – YES
- Audio – No (available as extra)
- Video – YES (Included in text)
Bonuses (Text Reports)
- Textual Chemistry
- Finding Love Online
TDS in detail
The Devotion System is best described (in my opinion) as a broad education about men and relationships. Rather than honing in on a particular topic or strategy, TDS covers the different stages and aspects of your relationship(s), with a focus on finding Mr. Right and keeping him.
The system is divided up into three different parts:
The 3 part system
Part 1 – Relationship basics
Find out about why what your doing right now isn’t working. And what might be standing between you and Mr Right. This section is primarily about you. Clarifying what you truly want in a relationship, understanding how to let go of what isn’t working for you now, and learning what you can do to attract your dream man.
What you will learn:
- What men crave in a relationship and what will keep them around long term
- The # ways that you communicate to him which turn him off
- How to get him to try harder to please you
- Why your man (or men in the past) have ‘tuned you out’ and what you can do about it
Plenty of ‘be attractive on the inside’ type advice. Although it may seem redundant it is also a good reminder of what the ‘basics’ are. There are just statements on what you should do, no way to go about them. And it’s generally common sense. ‘Don’t judge others’ ‘get active’
There are a few techniques but they are few and far between.
Part 2 – Men
This section covers what makes men tick. The inner workings of men and why they do the things that they do. In particular, why men chase, why they pull away and how you affect both.
What you will lean:
- The short sentence phrases that you can use to lead him where you want to go like a carrot on a stick
- The 15 different types of men, what their relationship strengths and weaknesses are including which ones to avoid like the plague
- How to spot a guy that you should avoid early, so you can move on with minimal fuss
- The 10 question checklist to will help you detect men to avoid
- 16 Easy to spot ways to know that he’s interested in you
- How to feel empowered and confident when you are with a new man
- What men love to feel when they are out on a date
Good insights into the male psyche. What he is driven by and how you fit into how he sees his life. I (and i think other readers) would like some extrapolation here and some more information. There are points on how to get him to chase you, what men want from the woman in their lives, and what turns him off commitment.
The phrases will help you through the early to mid stages of your relationship. They are short, easy to customize and work into your circumstances and reusable really. Which is a plus.
The 15 different types of men will give you an insight into men. It will help you identify who your talking to / dating / in a relationship with, as well as know their relationship strengths and weaknesses. Quite insightful.
Part 3 – Stages of love
The last section covers relationships with a focus on you and techniques you can use to influence your future relationships. From bringing up marriage, to intimacy, to how to keep him committed.
What you will learn
- The 10 question quiz to know what kind of woman you are and identify what type of partner is the best fit for you
- The golden rules of communication with a man over different mediums
- The 5 levels of intimacy that you need to adhere to and do for your partner if you want to completely narrow his focus on you
- How to make him addicted to you – subtle techniques to draw his affection and give him ‘lifelong love goggles’
- The marriage maker line – How to bring up marriage to your man
- The 11 indicators that tell if your relationship is on rocky ground and what to do about it
- What to look for when he is straying (and what to do about it).
- The top 20 ways women sabotage their relationships
- The special spots on a mans body that will have him craving your touch
- The #1 rule to talking while being intimate with your man. It will change how you approach your special alone time together
- 20 gestures you can use to get his attention and have him thinking only of you the next time your out in a crowded room
Part 3 is mostly about getting serious about your relationship.
There is a lot of techniques and tips in this section. From discovering the ‘type of woman’ you are, to learning how to keep him monogamous and some intimacy related advice. Anyone looking for information about ‘the back end’ of a relationship will like this.
A Quick Note on Amy North
Who is Amy North?
Amy North has had a brain dump into this program. She is clearly knowledgeable and has put much (if not everything) of what she knows into this program.
According to the program, she is a relationship and dating coach (not a therapist) with 5 years experience from Vancouver, Canada.
The PROS and CONS of ‘The Devotion System’
There is A WHOLE LOT of information in this program. It’s definitely more of a breadth than a depth type. There are plenty of listicles where the dot points are something new. The program starts off a little slow in part one but picks it up in parts two and three.
Easy to read and understand
The program is written in a friendly and conversational tone. The same way that you would have a conversation with a friend. There’s no industry specific words, everything is in everyday language. The videos not only help break the text up, but they are also a good way to recap on the program. After you have finished, if you want to simply freshen up or a quick reminder on what was covered, the videos are a good way to do this.
Because this is a broad program its good to see that it’s easy to maneuver around. It’s not a big thing but it does help when your looking for something specific. Things are clearly labelled and you can click to where you want to go from the contents.
A little preachy
There’s plenty of ‘these are the qualities to display’ but nothing behind that. No, here’s why you are displaying them and here’s how to fix that…
The program only has one speed as well. Full pelt, information at you. There isn’t a different speed. And although there are videos as well as text, it doesn’t come across as a different perspective, or different format even. The videos the presenter is reading off of a cue, it’s pretty much the same as reading it.
The downside of being a broad system is that there isn’t that depth of information. The what happens if he does this, what happens if he does that. This doesn’t make the system easy to remember and implement. So although there is tips, techniques, and even sentence starters and text message templates, there isn’t really a plan.
A 20 page basic guide on texting, how to text, how not to text and finally what to text. Not all of the ‘text templates’ are good in my opinion but there is a few things here that you can use. This is a very basic guide.
Finding Love Online
A 21 page guide about with general advice about finding love online. The guide covers, how to build a profile, general rules to sending messages, what to look for in profiles to avoid and how to meet guys that you actually want to meet. I think there is some valid information here that even serial internet dating (and dating app users) won’t know, there’s also plenty of common sense.
A 27 page guide and a basic education into cheating as it applies to men. In particular there’s 7 reasons why men cheat, the 7 components of lasting love as well as signs that he’s cheating. This guide is only a quick guide, and some information in it is covered in the main program, but it is worth a read.
The Devotion System – My Opinion
Firstly, i’d like to say that this is a good broad base of information. As i’ve already said (but think it’s worth saying one more time) it covers a lot. And no matter what stage of a relationship you will find something relevant. Especially if your single and dating.
Although this system is more theory than action, I recommend it. Especially if you feel lost and like you have no control over the men in your life. You will learn something. It isn’t a silver bullet and it isn’t going to solve everything, however it is going to educate yourself about men and make you more aware of the relationship dynamics between you and them.
You can get your copy of The Devotion System here (for the cheapest price it is available)
If you have a question, query or comment about the program then you can contact me here.
Thanks for reading my The Devotion System review